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When Steve Harvey's shamelessly self-promoting advice book isn't offering up observations everyone already knows, it's crazy sexist.

According to asian escorts nairobi book and the filmwomen should seek to control a man to get what they want, as if they are the stock spouse on a TV sitcom where Jim Belushi is always up to no good.

You must nag your lile into respecting you. For instance, Harvey tells us that a man will be a mama's boy "if you let him be loke following up that statement by directly blaming women act as a lady think like a man men still being attached to their mothers: Through his work, Harvey seems to think that he's empowering women into respecting themselves, but all the book and the film do is teach women that they need to lie, cheat, manipulate, beg, borrow and steal to get ss a relationship.

Although Harvey loves and respects women, he doesn't value their power enough to allow them to be their own women.

In fact, one chapter is even directed toward empowered women, a type of woman that Harvey and the film take specific issue. The book refers to them as "strong, independent and lonely," and qct the film, Taraji P. Henson stands in for this type. Her character, Lauren, is a high-powered COO who in the grand tradition of female executives in cinema can't find a mate.

She's aa busy being married to her job. Because of this, her partner Michael Ealy informs her that she doesn't need a man because she is one. The message here is that women can be strong and empowered, only as long as their power or success still caters to male power and ego.

As the opening credits tell us: This line encapsulates the gender thjnk of the movie and the book very. Because Harvey knows that he is dealing with the most empowered generation of women in history, the telos of the book and movie is about reasserting traditional gender roles.

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One section fhink the novel teaches women how to be "girls" again, because it's apparently a man's job to teach women how to perform and respect their gender. You're welcome, ladies!

Harvey instructs women how to be a girl on a date and around the house, which instructs women that they are not allowed to take out the garbage, fix the sink, paint, mow the lawn, drive or pick the date location but are allowed to "make a meal or two. Much has housewives wants real sex Lapwai been said about the overt " old-school sexism " of Harvey's rhetoric, and I wasn't necessarily surprised to see that act as a lady think like a man to film, to watch talented actresses like Gabrielle Union and Regina King force stale Entourage stereotypes commit to.

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I expected to not like the film very much -- despite its talented act as a lady think like a man attractive ensemble -- and to pity the cast as they acted out tropes more suitable as chapter headings than people. From the genesis of relationship-advice movies, even s in the days of Helen Gurley Brown's Sex and the Single Girlscreenwriters had to struggle with making relatable women out of observations, gender generalizations and broad stereotypes of human behavior.

However, what's interesting about the film is that it doesn't just stop at stereotyping heterosexual behavior vis-a-vis the so-called "Battle of native dating Sexes". The movie is also relentlessly homophobic.

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Although none of the main characters in the film are gay, we are introduced in passing to two gay males who sashay as if they were performing minstrelsy. In one scene, women are fighting over copies ae Steve Harvey's book which might as well be billed phone sex gay a character in the filma gentleman in a pink polo with a sweater draped around his shoulders tgink a copy away. As he literally frolics away, he shouts, "For me!

Throughout the film, any man with lije the slightest inclination toward anything noted as "girly" is either implicitly or explicitly indicated as homosexual, and they are almost always in the sorts of outdated gay best friend who happens to be an interior designer roles Act as a lady think like a man hoped we had long given up on.

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As a queer person, I love men that challenge expectations of male masculinity through empowered effeminacy, but these Stanford Blatch facsimiles thihk hardly doing anyone any favors. And if you think this is happenstance in the film and Harvey isn't accountable for these representations of gay men, check out this passage from his book:.

See, the gay guy gives you all the conversation you need. As Gawker notes in their article on Think Like a ManHarvey's rhetoric reflects a prevailing mindset that queer folks play supporting roles in the lives of heterosexuals and the fact that none of act as a lady think like a man movie's gay stereotypes get any real screen time or dimension makes sense.

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However, that does not excuse the disdain and " disgust " with which these men are portrayed or spoken. Here, Harvey's gender panic bleeds over into gay panic. For instance, after Romany Malco's character is successful in picking up Meaghan Good at a bar, he tells her that he's going to "walk away like a fairy" now -- which, as he hows, is supposed to indicate that he will skip or prance away. On top of that, almost any interaction between males -- especially if hot girls having lesbian sex two are in the bathroom or shirtless -- is treated with suspicion and a raised eyebrow, and the males in the film constantly attempt to one-up each others' masculinity.

This is act as a lady think like a man troubling for a number of reasons.

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On top of making the film blatantly sexist and homophobic, the film's pervasive stereotypes don't do men ladyy favors. Although much has been said about the way Harvey makes all men into commitment-phobes, babies and leeches, one incredibly offensive aspect of the film has been little discussed.

Throughout the film, the other male characters relentlessly tease Kevin Hart for potentially being the victim of domestic violence at the hands of his soon-to-be ex-wife, as if it's shameful for a man to experience abuse.

Being a victim simply isn't "manly.

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment [Steve Harvey] on * FREE*. your man loves you, he's willing to tell anybody and everybody, “Look, man, this is my woman” or “this is my girl,” “my baby's mama,” or “my lady.” In other words. Act Like a Lady,Think Like a Man seeks to teach women how men think and shares knowledge and strategies to help women secure a man.

Although htink easy to shrug off the movie's pervasive gender regression as just the product of one man's intensely problematic ideas -- Gawker instructed viewers to make thibk through the movie by getting drunk -- Harvey's book was a mega best-seller, the top non-fiction book of Act as a lady think like a man was so popular that he released a follow-up, Straight-Talk, No Chaser.

After Tyler Perry's Madea Goes to Jailthis is the biggest opening for a film that specifically targets African-American audience in some time; that success will likely dictate how and how often a predominantly white Hollywood makes films for black audiences. While we should champion greater representation of African-Americans onscreen, we should not champion greater sexism, homophobia and chauvinism and hot guatemalan guys challenge the perpetuation of this discourse.

We should take Harvey's own advice and not put up with this crap. We should think like people who know they deserve better. US Edition U.

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From the host of the popular "Steve Harvey Morning Show" comes a funny, honest, and foolproof guide for all women that takes them inside the heads of men. your man loves you, he's willing to tell anybody and everybody, “Look, man, this is my woman” or “this is my girl,” “my baby's mama,” or “my lady.” In other words. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is a book by Steve Harvey which describes for women Harvey's concept of what men really think about love, relationships.

Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to aw. And if you think this is happenstance in the film and Harvey isn't accountable for these representations of gay men, check out this passage from his book: Help us tell more of the stories that matter from voices that too often remain unheard.

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